What is obvious?
Just because somethings are obvious to you, doesn’t mean that it is obvious to all.
We have been getting this from our senior design professor — the one and only Leslie Potter for a whole semester now when we are writing our report…
“Make sure there’s no holes”
“Don’t assume that the reader knows what you mean if you did say exactly what you mean”
“Don’t take for granted that your audience gets what you tell them the way you intend for them to get it”
Yes, IE441 really prepares an engineering student to become an engineer. Not only that, the class somehow prepares you for the real world out there…Thank you Leslie!
“The world is not divided into black & white. It is filled with shades of grey.”
Sometimes, things that you do, think and/or feel is right all these while may turn out to be wrong after coming back to it in a day, a week, a month or a year. Some may even take a few years. We are all human, and we are all imperfections. The point is to learn from your mistakes and constantly improve yourself in every way you know how.
Yes, getting it sooner is better than later. But the worse is that you never realize at all that you are fault, or refuse to do so. What’s worse is to put the blame on others and convince yourself that others are in the wrong while you are the one who have done the damages. When you think that you have never been wrong, that where you went wrong…
“The worst part of an argument is the part when you realize that you are wrong…” — TooNs, ISU
I read that in thought that it’s so funny yet so true… I’ve made several mistakes and I know it. I am willing to face them, fix them and learn from them.
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The world is a funny place. Isn’t it weird how sometimes (most of the time) the one who is in the process of stabbing someone else’s back gets the pat on the back & sympathy from others?
The world is a funny place. Sometimes, all your good intentions are redundant, but slight imperfect way you do things (because you care) are magnified till the point you are labeled “the devil”… (& etc.)
Oh yes… The world IS a funny place… Sometimes…
Being too nice means getting shit from people & being taken advantage of
Being too conservative means being unfriendly/not sociable
Being too friendly means being labeled as “fake”
Being too sociable means being labeled as “wild/party girl”
Being harsh & impolite sometimes means having self defense
Opening up to people sometimes means not being unable to keep things private or labeled “attention freak”
Keeping some matters private & not airing your dirty laundry sometimes gives people more reason to hate you… (something I’ve recently learned, thanks to my not-so-obvious-good-friend)
Letting people in & caring about them means giving them the red carpet to stab you in the chest!
~The list goes on!~
~~To be continued~~